I polled loss moms on Instagram and asked them this question: “Tell us what you should NEVER say to a loss mom”. One of the most common responses was starting any sentence with “at least". Here are some of their responses in no particular order:
You’re dramatic about everything and I’m just not. Sorry I had a healthy pregnancy and you didn’t
Any statement that starts with “at least” …….
Everything happens for a reason, or you can always try again